Secret, Trust and Frustrations
How would you feel if some of your friends tells you their secret? (the big time secret of their life!) How would you react at first? (well maybe they have that idea though) Does they know that you might not want to hear or know it at all? and it's better to be left unsaid? or you feel the other way around? feeling excited what that secret might be? would you offer help? advises? if they needed to know? or you'll just be stiff at all and absorb the shock feeling from what you had learnt about?
At first you feel overwhelmed and great, thinking that they trusted you enough to share their secrets with. It's a common reaction, then you feel shocked, stiffed, confused and speechless, gathering the idea and questions playing in your mind the, WH questions, the WHat? WHy? WHen? WHere? and How? did that all happen? specially when your not expecting it all.
Now comes the frustrations and guilt. You are frustrated that now you know the secret thing you should be more careful on everything related to the secret and the people around who are involved. You feel guilty that only you knows the secret and you wish someone also knows it so you will feel better and you need someone to express your feelings too so you'll feel lighter and share different opinions and ideas on how to deal with it aside from the person who told you the secret.
Sometimes you wish they shouldn't have told you about it so everything will be just normal as before and you don't have to pretend to people that everything is fine and in place, when there is really something going on.
It's hard to earn someones trust yet its so easy to be nullified. So you should take good care of it. Frustrations can also affect our decisions and feelings. There are lots of things we should consider and weigh on what is the exact things to do for the best of both parties.
Life is real, but sometimes we need to fake it for thousands of different reasons. We have to lie for a reason or for no reason at all, it could be for our own good or for the sake of others who we cared for.
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